Mom's visa has been approved, so does my uncle (mom's lil brother) and in about 2 weeks time, they will be here insya-allah ;)
Dad is not the best person to accompany mom since he can't stay here for long and Davis is really dusty. The last thing I need is my dad comes down with his penyakit semput and with no insurance, medical bills will be very costly. But thanks to dad for sponsoring my uncle's ticket, my mom at least has some company while she is here and uncle can drive her around as well as to/fro the hospital.
Mom decided to buy Leesa confinement set as that was what her friend who owns a kedai ubat recommended. She bought extra herb pills for me so that I can extend my confinement period until at least 90 days *pengsan* I don't know how strict my mom will be....... Whatever it is, I am totally grateful that she sacrificed her time as well as letting a close friend of her to take over her kedai kuih temporarily. Meaning, she will have no income for 2 months. With that in mind, I promise that I will at least, try to make her birthday this year as memorable as possible. If baby F decided to pops out on her grandma's birthday (ie: May 2nd), that will be the ultimate present for her, sharing birthday with her grandkid, but takkanlah nak teran baby sampai keluar pulak kan.Haha!
I would not want to spend another confinement period alone, totally clueless. Seriously, I was on the edge of having a post-partum depression, and I would not want that again to happen, ever.
So, with that, thank you mama! I am blessed to have you as my mom ;)
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best nya ada org jaga masa pantang nnt.. seriously sgt penting ok..x sama mcm hubby jaga..aku dulu hampir dpt sindrom meroyan masa pantang sorang2. bila baby nangis non stop and both x tau nk buat apa2..end up penat nk mampus. depress sangat..
Yep, I feel you Hetty. Aku yang takde baby nih pun rasa depress gila time pantang, apetah lagi ko yang ada baby. Sebelum aku proceed dengan plan aku nak conceive, aku dah tanya mak aku awal2, dia leh datang tak jaga aku dalam pantang. Kalau dia kata tak dapat datang, maybe aku tunggu sampai habis PhD kot. Ko kejap je pantang kat sana kan? Dalam pantang bukan ke ko balik Malaysia?
nice to know that your mom and uncle will be going to Davis to accompany you....
can ask them to help bring stuff to US and back?
HAHAHAHAHA. j/k.
May 2? ...wa...so fast. so you are expecting her anytime between end of April to mid May lah?
don't depress! whenever depress, just think of Zain's jokes, or your own toilet paper joke!!
mak aku pun dok sebut2 set dlm pantang leesa cosmetic tuh, haha..aku pun baru tau ada set2 gitu skrg nih. anyway, hv fun bjumpa dgn mak ko, kelas gitu aunty gi davis ;) take care nox, semoga semuanya dipermudahkan, amin.aku skrg fasa skt blkg takle tido, huhu.panas berlengas, rasa mcm nak tido kat porch umah je ;p
YH: Remind me to remind your future wife to take you to a prenatal class. Jai is freaking out a lil bit knowing how stressful the condition will be. Don't underestimate hormonal influences, they can get you crazy okeh. Anyway, let me know if you need to pesan/kirim anything. Do you want me to kirim your diploma through my mom?
Che Dah:
Set pantang Sendayu Tinggi and Nona Roguy pun ada nox. Tapi dorang takde complete set, cam tungku and bengkung. Tak silap aku NR ada kena calit2 kat muka ape tah mak aku cakap.So renyah nox.Leesa jamu dalam bentuk pil and complete dengan tungku and bengkung.Tungku dia kena kukus lah. Kalau ko nak beli tungku elektrik extra boleh aje. Kat sini voltage lower dari Malaysia, so takut tak berapa panas tungku kalau pakai electric. Take care nyah.Nanti aku fb msg ko lepas nih set the date for goss session k.
lain rasanya kalau mak sendiri jaga masa kita dlm pantang kan :)
Liza:
Aah, setuju! Sebab dorang pun pernah melalui perkara yang sama. Kalau husband nih, susah sikit nak bagi dia faham what are we going through.
aku blk msia masa 40 hari...kira dh hbs pantang la masa kat msia..tapi tobat aku x mau pantang sorang2 dah...
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